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October is domestic violence awareness month in Alaska.

Cynthia Maughs, strangled. Rachel Peace strangled and burned. Mona Edwards, shot. Maela Crabtree, shot. Susan Bailey, beaten to death. And the list goes on and on.

For eighteen of the last twenty-five years Alaska has too often led the nation in violence against women and children. From domestic violence and sexual assault to child abuse, the devastating effects are being felt from Alaska’s smallest village to its largest city.

Last month the Violence Policy Center ranked Alaska number one for the rate of females murdered by males in the single victim/single offender category. In addition, between 1999 and 2004, there were over 18,000 domestic violence related charges statewide.

In Anchorage, a recent draft report released by the Department of Health and Human Services and the Anchorage Police Department shows our community facing the same trends as the rest of Alaska. On average, APD responds to eleven domestic violence calls per day.

Between July 2004 and July 2005 a new incident of domestic violence occured every 90 minutes in Alaska.

Why?

Domestic violence is a complex social problem that is aggravated by Alaska’s high rate of alcohol and drug abuse. The root causes come from factors such as trans generational behavior where children of abusive parents believe violence is acceptable. Isolation from extended family in both rural and urban communities as well as skewed societal role models that lead batterers to believe it’s okay to control their partners with physical, sexual, verbal, emotional and economic abuse.

Statewide averages show roughly 80% of victims are female and 20% are male. Given the reality that women traditionally earn less than men, female victims routinely show up at local shelters with little or no resources and usually with children.

Economics is just one of the reasons why victims endure an average of seven domestic violence incidents before they leave the abusive relationship. Other factors of why victims stay include fear of losing child custody, cultural attachment to strong family values, fear of harm to family pets and yes -even love.

Caught in the crossfire are children. According to statistics, roughly 60% of domestic violence calls involve children witnessing the incident. Studies have shown that this is the strongest risk factor for transmitting violence from one generation to the next.

Statewide, the number of victims seeking refuge at domestic violence shelters is growing.

At the Abused Women’s Aid In Crisis Center (AWAIC) in Anchorage, they reported over 16,000 shelter nights last year. In the Mat-Su Valley, an area that has ranked at the top of a growing trend of domestic violence, the local crisis center provided 4,600 shelter nights last year.

So what can we do?

Alaska is blessed with a dedicated group of professionals committed to serving the needs of domestic violence victims. But in order to finally turn the corner on this destructive behavior, they need a stronger commitment from the state to hold offenders accountable.

An overburdened court system combined with a crime that sometimes yields limited evidence allows offenders to plead down. Offenders who plead down are commonly sentenced to anger management courses rather than certified batterer intervention programs. However consistent research shows anger management courses do very little to address domestic violence. Anger management deals with momentary outbursts of anger; domestic violence is far more calculated.

State laws need to be strengthened to mandate offenders attend a certified batterers intervention program; increased training for law enforcement and child custody investigators, greater data gathering and the biggest impact would be a dedicated domestic violence court program similar to the highly effective alcohol & drug courts.

In short, state government must begin to recognize that stronger sentencing and greater accountability will bring immediate relief. In addition, making adequate investments in prevention and education through the Council on Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault and Alaska Legal Services will help mitigate the rising expense domestic violence creates through increased health care, law enforcement, court and corrections costs.

October is domestic violence awareness month in Alaska.

Gwendolyn Iyatunguk shot. Doris Folger shot. Gail Dorr shot. Brenda Wallner stabbed in front of her 8 year old. Susan Willams shot in front of her 6 and 3 year old.


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Family violence issues are

Family violence issues are strictly related to other present serious issues of our society. Drug abuse is one of them. Name me a successful couple having a drug or alcohol problem, we can't find such a thing... Before rushing into divorce couples should support each other in healing from drugs.


Drug treatment is an element at times, but not the cause

This is a myth. Substance abuse may be a factor in some cases, but is not the cause of domestic violence. This is an excuse for abuse and should not be acceptable in our society. To make the statement , "rushing into divorce", indicates a person that has no real experience with domestic violence.


This is not domestic

This is not domestic violence, this is domestic massacre. How can a couple reach this level of degradation, obviously there are many "respectable" people among us that don't even deserve the air the breathe. Domestic violence needs to be stopped, I am so very sorry to hear about so many cases... These couples need as much marriage counseling as they can get.


marriage counseling

Gordman, get real. By the time any couple gets to marriage counseling, the marriage is pretty much over. It is ineffective at best and harmful at worst, particularly if there is DV involved and the counselor has no specialized training in that area. Most marriage counselors are ill-equipped to deal with domestic violence. What do we do, tell the women to "get over it"? and the men to just "quit it"? The complexities are much larger than that. DV perpetrators arent' generally responsive to anger-manegement, couples counseling, co-parenting counselor or any of the touch-feeling therapeutics that non-experts try to impose. Even batterer's intervention programs specifically targeted to long-held belief systems of batters are only around 8% effective when participated in on a long term (1-year+) basis by willing participants. Counseling is not the answer--protective the women and children involved is and making strong legal responses is the way that batterer's will respond if at all.


DV and Custody

Thank you, Andrew for this very well researched article. It is rare to see folks make the link between domestic violence, the effects on children and the fact that abusers often do get custody. Although we do have legislation in place in Alaska to help prevent this, all too often abusers are still able to pervert the system for their benefit. As long as the judiciary continues to bring up questionable trainers that only continue to reinforce myths about domestic violence and custody, women and children are going to be placed in harm's way. There have been ample opportunities for Anchorage judges to take advantage of domestic violence and child abuse experts, yet they have snubbed them in favor of others that tell them what they want to hear. Also, as long as we have an implied preference for shared parenting and legal custody, and any friendly parent provisions in our custody laws, those are going to continue to compete with domestic violence factors.


October is Domestic Violence Awareness

Key word is "awareness". I agree with you on the family violence issues part. Where are the names of the male victims in your list above? Recently in the news was the murder of Charles Carteeti by his girlfriend Judy Merculief? I'm fairly positive there are more male victims as well. Domestic violence against men happens. It's just not reported as much due to social stigmatism that if men are beaten by women they are wimps. I'd also like to point out when abuse by the female partner is reported to police, police tend to disbelieve the male victim. Police tend to go into a domestic situation with the mind set the male is the aggressor. I call that Gender Profiling. Why do I make this statement? Because I've lived through it one too many times. I've had police say something to the effect "you did it yourself". When I showed the police the scrathes on my face, "those are defensive wounds", even after explaining that I was sitting in a chair at the computer and my female partner came up from behind and started scratching upwards from my chin. I believe I called the police on my ex four times, out of those four times, she was arrested once. By the way, I felt I needed to get my daughter, who was 18 months old at the time, out of the abusive environment. I could see the cycle starting by my daughters actions. Whenever my daughter would get mad at me for not getting her way, she would throw things at me. I just knew right at that moment I needed to get my daughter out of that enviroment. Today she is 8 years old, very well mannered, and most of all the cycle has stopped. My point is that DV is not a gender issue, it is a human issue. What is your point of view on men being victims of DV? Do you believe it happens more than is being reported? Several years ago I wrote a letter to the editor of the Sitka Sentinal. I know I've got a copy somewhere, but I'd have to dig it up, it is packed somewhere. I believe the letter was authored in 2000 and happened to be published on October 5, which is my birthday too. If you'd like to see a copy of this letter I'm sure I can find it and mail you a copy or scan it and create a PDF file for you. A couple of years ago there was a radio call-in show with DV as the topic. I called the show and anonymously stated (because of the small town) that men are vicitms just as much as women are. That DV was not a gender issue but a human issue. Not long after my call, an elderly gentleman called to agree with me, he explained that he had witnessed his son's girlfriend abuse him. I just believe that men do not report the abuse afflicted upon them by their female parnters. When/if they do, the police generally do nothing, or do not believe you, as with my personal experience. Or the male gets arrested for protecting themselves! C.

Andrew's Response:

In the article I pointed out that the reported (cases of DV reported to police) that the ratio was 80% male, 20% female. However you are right in making the point that women abusing men is becoming more and more common.

 


More and more common?

I think the judicial system is finally recognizing the fact the women can and do initiate the abuse in a relationship! I don't think it's becoming more and more common. I think police are finally believing men that report abuse. My perspective is that the judicial system and police, especially the police, have gender bias, in which the male is always the perpetrator and not the victim. But this is just my opinion and experience.


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